My sphere of influence

In an effort to use my time wisely, I had this random thought to reach out to some female friends who have made an impact on me personally and professionally. I'm trying to organize scheduled meet-ups for us all to discuss our triumphs, our tragedies, our concerns, and our doubts as we work towards our personal and career goals. I look to these women as a source of inspiration and motivation. Hopefully I can be the same for someone else. Each of the women I've approached meet the following criteria:

1. They are ambitious and/or influential among their peers.
2. They push me to achieve my personal best.
3. They are all gifted with talents and abilities.
4. We have worked together in some capacity.

I once heard somewhere that a wise person talks about ideas whereas a foolish person talks about people. Keeping this in mind, I don’t care to gather in a group of women and gossip. To me it’s a useless way to spend my precious time and it’s downright mean to slander someone behind his or her back. I’ve gained some perspective on this, as I’ve been the subject of floating rumors in certain social groups.

I prefer to surround myself with people who have big dreams and are the epitome of perseverance. I’m selective in how I spend my spare time since being a wife and mom keeps me plenty busy. I believe that if I’m to succeed in anything, I’ll need inspiration, support, and understanding from people who get what I’m trying to accomplish. And hopefully I can help or inspire someone else in her climb to success. So we’ll see how the first meeting goes. Until then, I’m learning to look at life more positively and constructively and encouragement from other like-minded individuals will surely give me a boost.

Are you depressed?

I heard a wonderful message in a sermon delivered by Pastor Ed Young, Jr. of Fellowship Church. He spoke about an emotional condition that affects so many people. For those of you who may be experiencing bouts of depression, heed these words.

The number one cure for depression is to go out into the world, find someone in need and help them. It’s as simple as that.

I believe that in doing so, you will find long-lasting fulfillment and joy in your life. Please consider offering a helping hand to someone in need. Not only will you feel good about putting someone else first, you’re also doing your part as God expects each one of us to do. When you give back you give glory to Him.